Young Soldier’s Family Didn’t Attend His Graduation Ceremony.

Mariah didn’t know the young soldier standing alone at Army graduation — but in a quiet, emotional moment, she stepped up anyway.

The ceremony had nearly ended when Mariah approached the trainee, tapped him out and placed a cord over his shoulder — a deeply meaningful military tradition typically shared between close family or friends.

Her wife, Liz, captured the gesture on video and posted it to TikTok with the words, “When my wife taps out a young soldier she’s never met before because no one was showing up.”

@lizhernandez_31 I know so many people misunderstand who you are but I know how big your heart is and I will always love you for you ♥️ @mariah. 🫶🏽#armygraduation#fortbenning#army#infantry#tapout#soldier#airborne#fortmoore#unitedstatesofamerica🇺🇸 ♬ Home – Matthew Hall

The video was paired with the caption, “I know so many people misunderstood who you are but I know how big your heart is and I will always love you for you.” Since being posted, it’s touched millions — the video now has more than 28 million views and 31,000 comments.

“I just wanted to keep the video to myself,” Liz tells PEOPLE, reflecting on the clip she held in her drafts for months. “But I was like, ‘You know what? I’m going to post it because I want to show other people that she’s really misunderstood — she’s really a good person.’ ”

Liz says the moment was especially meaningful because Mariah is not the type to draw attention. “She’s an introvert, so she’s not really like, out there like that.”

Mariah had noticed the young soldier standing alone while everyone else celebrated with loved ones. “What went through my mind was it was really sad that no one was there to have that moment with him,” she tells PEOPLE.

“And other people were seeing him be alone as well, but no one was doing anything about it,” she adds. “I asked his permission — I asked for his consent — and he nodded.”

In the video, Mariah can be seen pausing as she looks around to see how the cord is supposed to be placed. “I didn’t know how to put on the cord itself,” she says. “But I just went ahead and did it.”

The decision was deeply personal. “My dad is military, and whenever we got out of the ceremony, I texted him,” Mariah shares. “I said, ‘Hey, was anyone there for your ceremony to tap you out?’ ”

“He said he didn’t have a tap out ceremony. And I was like, okay good because I probably would have cried every night just thinking about him not getting tapped out.”

Afterward, Mariah didn’t linger. “I did ask him for a hug after the clip,” she says. “But I’m not even a hugger, I’m very introverted, so I didn’t want to bring attention to the fact that he was crying or having a mushy moment.”

She says she simply thanked him for his service and walked away, tears quietly filling her eyes. Liz was nearby, recording the moment without Mariah’s knowledge. “She didn’t even know I filmed it until afterwards,” Liz says.

The two tried to find out more about the young man, hoping to reach out and connect. “We asked my brother and his friends, but nobody knew his first name. They all go by last names,” Liz explains. Despite the overwhelming reach of the video, they haven’t been able to locate him.

Mariah adds, “He’s still so young, like freshly out of high school. He’s not the generation to get on Facebook.”

The impact on their relationship hasn’t been dramatic, but the emotional response from strangers has been surprising. “A lot of people don’t view me that way,” Mariah says. “She’s the golden retriever of the relationship — everyone’s always like, ‘Oh, we love Liz, she’s so sweet.’ ”

Mariah says the praise has felt a little strange, especially because she normally keeps to herself. “People don’t really see my true personality,” she adds. “It’s not normal for me, for people to be like, ‘Wow, she’s so sweet.’ ”

Liz, on the other hand, has been deeply moved watching the world honor her wife. “I tear up every time, because it is sad,” she shares. “I didn’t even notice he was crying until I watched the video, because I was more focused on her. This was so out of her comfort zone.”

Reading through the thousands of comments has only deepened Liz’s admiration for Mariah. “A lot of people are so sweet about her, and I don’t know, it just makes me love her so much,” she says. “There’s hardly any negative comments — they’re like, ‘Take care of her, she’s a queen,’ and I’m like, yeah, I’m glad people can see that.”

Mariah says she didn’t think the moment was anything extraordinary. “I didn’t think it was a moment worthy of recording,” she admits. “But then it started taking off, and I was like, ‘Oh, that’s so nice’ and I just continued with my day.

Liz says one thing she didn’t expect was the way people connected so deeply with the ritual itself. “A lot of people didn’t know what this tap out ceremony thing was,” she explains. “And I did not know how many people didn’t have anybody there for them — it meant a lot to this young guy.”

She says she hopes, wherever he is, he feels seen. “That was a really special moment that he worked hard for,” Mariah says. “I just wanted to make sure someone showed up for him in that small way.”

Mariah didn’t know the young soldier standing alone at Army graduation — but in a quiet, emotional moment, she stepped up anyway.

The ceremony had nearly ended when Mariah approached the trainee, tapped him out and placed a cord over his shoulder — a deeply meaningful military tradition typically shared between close family or friends.

Her wife, Liz, captured the gesture on video and posted it to TikTok with the words, “When my wife taps out a young soldier she’s never met before because no one was showing up.”

@lizhernandez_31 I know so many people misunderstand who you are but I know how big your heart is and I will always love you for you ♥️ @mariah. 🫶🏽#armygraduation#fortbenning#army#infantry#tapout#soldier#airborne#fortmoore#unitedstatesofamerica🇺🇸 ♬ Home – Matthew Hall

The video was paired with the caption, “I know so many people misunderstood who you are but I know how big your heart is and I will always love you for you.” Since being posted, it’s touched millions — the video now has more than 28 million views and 31,000 comments.

“I just wanted to keep the video to myself,” Liz tells PEOPLE, reflecting on the clip she held in her drafts for months. “But I was like, ‘You know what? I’m going to post it because I want to show other people that she’s really misunderstood — she’s really a good person.’ ”

Liz says the moment was especially meaningful because Mariah is not the type to draw attention. “She’s an introvert, so she’s not really like, out there like that.”

Mariah had noticed the young soldier standing alone while everyone else celebrated with loved ones. “What went through my mind was it was really sad that no one was there to have that moment with him,” she tells PEOPLE.

“And other people were seeing him be alone as well, but no one was doing anything about it,” she adds. “I asked his permission — I asked for his consent — and he nodded.”

In the video, Mariah can be seen pausing as she looks around to see how the cord is supposed to be placed. “I didn’t know how to put on the cord itself,” she says. “But I just went ahead and did it.”

The decision was deeply personal. “My dad is military, and whenever we got out of the ceremony, I texted him,” Mariah shares. “I said, ‘Hey, was anyone there for your ceremony to tap you out?’ ”

“He said he didn’t have a tap out ceremony. And I was like, okay good because I probably would have cried every night just thinking about him not getting tapped out.”

Afterward, Mariah didn’t linger. “I did ask him for a hug after the clip,” she says. “But I’m not even a hugger, I’m very introverted, so I didn’t want to bring attention to the fact that he was crying or having a mushy moment.”

She says she simply thanked him for his service and walked away, tears quietly filling her eyes. Liz was nearby, recording the moment without Mariah’s knowledge. “She didn’t even know I filmed it until afterwards,” Liz says.

The two tried to find out more about the young man, hoping to reach out and connect. “We asked my brother and his friends, but nobody knew his first name. They all go by last names,” Liz explains. Despite the overwhelming reach of the video, they haven’t been able to locate him.

Mariah adds, “He’s still so young, like freshly out of high school. He’s not the generation to get on Facebook.”

The impact on their relationship hasn’t been dramatic, but the emotional response from strangers has been surprising. “A lot of people don’t view me that way,” Mariah says. “She’s the golden retriever of the relationship — everyone’s always like, ‘Oh, we love Liz, she’s so sweet.’ ”

Mariah says the praise has felt a little strange, especially because she normally keeps to herself. “People don’t really see my true personality,” she adds. “It’s not normal for me, for people to be like, ‘Wow, she’s so sweet.’ ”

Liz, on the other hand, has been deeply moved watching the world honor her wife. “I tear up every time, because it is sad,” she shares. “I didn’t even notice he was crying until I watched the video, because I was more focused on her. This was so out of her comfort zone.”

Reading through the thousands of comments has only deepened Liz’s admiration for Mariah. “A lot of people are so sweet about her, and I don’t know, it just makes me love her so much,” she says. “There’s hardly any negative comments — they’re like, ‘Take care of her, she’s a queen,’ and I’m like, yeah, I’m glad people can see that.”

Mariah says she didn’t think the moment was anything extraordinary. “I didn’t think it was a moment worthy of recording,” she admits. “But then it started taking off, and I was like, ‘Oh, that’s so nice’ and I just continued with my day.

Liz says one thing she didn’t expect was the way people connected so deeply with the ritual itself. “A lot of people didn’t know what this tap out ceremony thing was,” she explains. “And I did not know how many people didn’t have anybody there for them — it meant a lot to this young guy.”

She says she hopes, wherever he is, he feels seen. “That was a really special moment that he worked hard for,” Mariah says. “I just wanted to make sure someone showed up for him in that small way.”